Saturday, November 08, 2008

我對佛說... The beauty of alanguage and a heart...

Source: Forwarded Email

我對佛說:請讓我所有的朋友永遠健康快樂~

說:只能四天~
:,春天、夏天、秋天、冬天。


說:三天。
說:好,昨天、今天、明天。


說:不行,兩天。
說:好,白天、黑天。


說:不行,就一天~
說:好~


佛茫然問到:哪一天?
說:在我所有朋友活著的每一天~?


佛笑了……說:以後你所有朋友將天天健康快樂~!!!
I ask Buddha: Please let all my friends always healthy and happy ~!

Buddha: only four days ~!
I say: well, spring, summer, autumn, winter.


Buddha: three days.
I said: Well, yesterday, today and tomorrow.


Buddha: No, for two days.
I say: Good day, black day.


Buddha: No, on the day ~!
I say: good ~!


Buddha at a loss to ask: which day?
I say: all my friends living every day ~! ?


Buddha smiled ... ...: After all your friends will be healthy and happy every day ~! ! !
Chinese


Beneficial things in daily life

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Source: Forwarded email:

Ants Problem:
Keep the skin of cucumbers near the place or ant hole.

To get pure and clean ice:
Boil water first before freezing.

To make the mirror shine:
Clean with spirit

To remove chewing gum from clothes:
Keep the cloth in the freezer for an hour.

To whiten white clothes
Soak white clothes in hot water with a slice of lemon for 10 minutes

To give a shine to hair:
Add one teaspoon of vinegar to hair, then wash hair.

To get maximum juice out of lemons:
Soak lemons in hot water for one hour, and then juice them.

To avoid smell of cabbage while cooking:
Keep a piece of bread on the cabbage in the vessel while cooking.

To rid the smell of fish from your hands:
Wash your hands with a little apple vinegar.

To avoid tears while cutting
onions:
Chew gum.

To boil potatoes quickly:
Skin one potato from one side only before boiling.

To boil eggs quickly:
Add salt to the water and boil.

To check freshness of fish:
Put it in a bowl of cold water. If the fish floats, it's fresh.

To check freshness of eggs:
Put the egg in water. If it becomes horizontal, it's fresh. If it becomes slanting, its 3-4 days old. If it becomes vertical, its 10 days old. If it floats, it's stale.

To remove ink from clothes:
Put toothpaste on the ink spots generously and let it dry completely,
then wash.

To skin sweet potatoes quickly:
Soak in cold water immediately after boiling.

To get rid of mice or rats:
Sprinkle black pepper in places where you find mice or rats. They will run away.

Friday, November 07, 2008

Alex Lo and S.P.Y.'s Wedding

Yeterday is a BIG day for S.P.Y. as her marriage. She is my niece and she is married to Mr. Alex Lo.

I took quite a photos and I think the total number of yesterday photos will be more than 500.

I uploaded some as I took for more than 270 photos.
Yesterday I took half day off in order than I can took the photos. Last night wedding dinner last until 10:30pm. The bride and groom back home at around 11:30pm as I think they took many many photos and have fun with their friends at Seria Jing Hua restaurant.


Thursday, November 06, 2008

Wedding day for Mr. Alex Lo and Estella Sim Pui Ying

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Today is a special day for my niece as her wedding day.
Our family will start our happy journey at 7:45am.
Her husband waked up early today as he have to get the flower for the shop. He got the flower back home at 7:18am. The time I also put up the red cloth in the main door with help of my nephew Loong.

I chanted so mantra for putting up this red cloth. The red cloth which put up in the main door is a kind of Chinese traditional mean that there is one of the family member who is getting marry today.

I will try my best to take lot of photos for this special wedding day.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

SPY Wedding day eve

1WU:5:12 2WU:6:15 MQG:1~5 LNQG:1~5

Mr. Lo give the 聘禮 dowry in the early morning.

Other photos can view at:

http://s126.photobucket.com/albums/p95/kfsim/SPY%20n%20Lo%20Wedding/

Saturday, November 01, 2008

「不可說」之說

Source: 來源:真佛資訊網路

「不可說」之說

~戴上法律的眼鏡~

周慧芳律師 撰

   「學佛覺有情、度生非虛名、不捨一眾生、這是真性靈。」這首詩道盡蓮生活佛盧勝彥對待眾生並無分別心,也無差異性,而是一律平等度化。所以皈依活佛的真 佛弟子中不但三教九流有之、貧富貴賤有之、且死囚罪犯有之、精神異常亦有之。然而,因堅持救度沒有分別,所以在良莠不齊的眾生中,偶會有一二叛逆、造謠者 是無法避免的。
  蓮生活佛面對那些造謠、誹謗的攻擊,一向未曾主動去澄清,因為他不僅「知世如夢無所求」,更深知一旦出面澄清,攤出證據,受害的反而是造謠、誹謗的弟 子。所以,面對謠言、誹謗,其均基於維護弟子名譽,以「不可說」的態度,毫無怨尤的「如如不動」、「無動於衷」。甚且曾說:「不管讚嘆我的,亦或是誹謗我 的,都是跟我有緣;我最怕的就是不認識我,跟我沒有緣分的人。因為沒有緣分,就無法度化。」可知他不在意眾生對他如何,他只在意能否抓住機會去度化擦身而 過的每個眾生。
  今〈二○○八〉年五月三日蓮生活佛因返台弘法,同月七日又再度遭逢某媒體誹謗。雖然大多數真佛弟子對蓮生活佛信心堅定,護師心切、群情憤慨,莫不對媒 體大加撻伐。但卻也有少數缺乏理性判斷的弟子,以及外界﹝包括媒體記者﹞不了解蓮生活佛者,因該篇報導之消息來源而持有偏見,進而擴散謠言。
  筆者從事法律實務工作二十餘年,同時亦為真佛宗皈依弟子。於此誹謗事件發生後,總會去思考如果我不是真佛宗弟子,對於被指控者又一直保持「不可說」的 態度下,將又如何去判斷事件的真相與是非。為此,我於今年兩度走訪西雅圖雷藏寺,分別了解媒體報導所述,即一九九七年當時之人、事、時、地、物後;我決意 褪去皈依弟子身分的外衣,摒除感性、情緒上的主觀用語,戴上我法律的眼鏡,從客觀角度出發,而為此文─「『不可說』之說」,在可說、不可說之間,且看我如 何說。


一、先說法律上對事件判斷的原則


   一般法律案件上,在指控者言之鑿鑿,而被指控者始終保持沉默下,其效果並不是如一般人認為當然所謂的「默認」。而是必須先審究指控者所提出之證據、資 料,對應所述事實的可信性度有多少。若可信度高,被指控者就要提出反證,以推翻指控事實;反之,若毫無可信度或可信度低,即便被指控者繼續保持沉默,指控 事實仍是無法成立。所以基於此一推理原則,接下來就可判斷週刊媒體所報導之張女事件,其可信度有幾何了。

二、再說「真佛密苑」,其實並不「密」


●「真佛密苑」名稱由來:


「真 佛密苑」的名稱,源自「真佛密法」。故此,「密」並非神秘、隱密之意,是因「密法」而得名。猶如藏傳佛教格魯派弘傳密法的道場,做為修習密宗的密乘學院和 最高學府;亦稱之為上密院、下密院。﹝資料來源:維基百科網站 www.wikipedia.org﹞因之,勿因「密苑」二字而有遐想。

●「真佛密苑」內部格局不是祕密:


早 期真佛密苑曾對外開放參觀,並經彩虹影視社入內拍攝,故內部格局擺設早為大多數弟子所熟悉。是故雜誌中,縱然張女了解密苑內部格局,亦非可做為具有特殊關 係之認定基礎。但對於其所稱蓮生活佛辦公室內擺設有床及床頭有裸女像等,證諸彩虹影視社所拍攝錄影帶內容;並詢問十餘年來負責清理活佛辦公室的璧燕法師, 即可知此部分描述均屬虛構。

●「真佛密苑」的用途:


「真 佛密苑」早年雖曾為蓮生活佛之住家,但早在二十二年前活佛全家即已遷出他住,並將全部場址提供做為真佛宗宗務委員會辦公室之用。該處平日上午九點至下午六 點即有上師、法師、義工們出入其中;主要作為回信中心,星期六則開放做為問事之用。自一九九四年十月起,由蓮寧上師負責管理密苑內部所有行政事務,並保管 密苑鑰匙得以隨時進出。

以「真佛密苑」所處位置,張女私自單獨進出有幾個不可能:


1.外在環境的不可能:西 雅圖雷藏寺的龍虎兩邊﹝即座落位置的左右兩側﹞各有四戶無圍牆開放式之獨棟房子。由雷藏寺大殿外面一眼望去,八戶人家進出行徑是一目了然。而真佛密苑位處 於雷藏寺龍邊數來第二間,與密苑同排之第三間為女性上師、法師及登記住宿女弟子之宿舍;而雷藏寺虎邊數來第四間即現在的圖書館、餐廳,則為當時男性上師、 法師及登記住宿男弟子之宿舍;其餘則為一般住家,當時非屬雷藏寺所有。八間房屋分列兩側各四戶且均面對面,與雷藏寺成一“U”字型。每日從清晨起即有上 師、法師及弟子們穿梭於U型走道中。所有進出均屬公開,而密苑更是由馬路外進入雷藏寺必經之地。張女稱其私密而單獨進出密苑之述,由外在環境來看是不可 能。
2.時間上之不可能:根據寺內的規定,上師、法師及登記住宿之弟子,均需依 寺內的作息時間活動;每日上午七點全體至雷藏寺集合,七點三十分開始同修,約一小時後共用早餐。住宿弟子若無法參加者,必須向負責住宿登記之法師請假,並 告知原因及去處,以利管理。經詢問當時負責住宿登記之蓮漣法師,其稱張女並非兩年長期住宿於雷藏寺,只是不定期陸續登記住宿而已,此其一。而且張女於住宿 期間,法師尚記得張女並未曾於上午同修時請假,也未曾單獨行動,此其二。更由於蓮漣法師當時係負責密苑門禁管制,也證實蓮生活佛當時並不居住於密苑,活佛 平日到密苑「上班」時間約為上午八點五十分至九點十五分左右。早上七點多之時段,活佛並不可能在密苑出現,此其三。而活佛平日駕車一駛入雷藏寺前U型走道 時,不論法師、上師或弟子均會上前頂禮迎接,不可能僅與單一弟子接觸而無人知曉,此其四。況且密苑因有門禁管制,張女又無鑰匙,如何單獨進入密苑,此其 五。由上述可知,張女並無可能如其所述於上午七時十五分許單獨進入密苑,此為時間上之不可能。
3.程序上之不可能: 依據管理密苑行政工作之蓮寧上師所述,蓮生活佛接受弟子問事,向來先須向其登記、安排時間;且於問事時,除活佛之外,必有侍者在場。一九九七年時,即是由 蓮寧上師負責隨侍在旁,若其無法陪同則另有常智上師等人代理。理論上,按此程序,弟子不可能與蓮生活佛有單獨相處之機,張女又如何能單獨接觸蓮生活佛?由 此可知,張女所述,自屬不可能。

綜合以上客觀條件,張女自稱清晨私自多次進入密苑之真實性,已可不辯自明。

三、最後要說,法律事件的來龍去脈


蓮生活佛宣佈退隱閉關,與張女法律訴訟係屬兩事,其間並無因果關係


蓮生活佛早於二○○○年初即成半退隱狀態,而不再長住西雅圖雷藏寺。且於二○○○年八月香港時輪金剛大法會公開宣布閉關後,隨即退隱。但張女之法律訴訟係 於二○○○年底,西雅圖雷藏寺才獲得通知;就時間而論,兩者前後並無因果關係。

●張女法律訴訟之被告有二,其結果也非「不了了之」


二○○○年,張女不僅對蓮生活佛提出訴訟,也對住宿期間供其吃住之西雅圖雷藏寺以照顧不周為由,提出訴訟請求損害賠償。對於訴請西雅圖雷藏寺部分,三審訴 訟歷時近四年,張女之訴求三審均遭駁回,敗訴確定。至於訴請蓮生活佛之部分,則因原告不合美國法院之法定程序;且此部分自始與訴請雷藏寺部分為不同之二 案。故此部分於停滯多年無法進行後,即經由張女律師自行請求撤回,兩案已於二○○四年均告終結。除有美國律師葛雷高利‧華頓 (Gregory S. Worden) 提供之信函可知外,針對張女對此官司之敗訴判決,另可至Find Law for Legal Professionals網站 (http://lp.findlaw.com) 予以印證;故其結果並非如張女所述「不了了之」。

一萬美元之和解金係廟方提出,與另案蓮生活佛之部分無關


由於美國律師 羅伯‧高登 (Robert B. Gould) 訴訟期間,建議廟方與張女試行和解,提出以美金一萬元和解金作為貼補其律師費用等支出。訴訟當時,廟方董事長德輝上師就尊重律師建議,交由律師處理。但事 後因張女律師無回應,該和解案並未成立。而最後廟方也三審三勝,未因曾提出和解案而對判決結果有任何影響。另,根據德輝上師告知,當時訴訟期間一案被分割 為二,均由廟方自行委任律師全權處理,蓮生活佛因閉關無法聯繫,對廟方曾提出和解方案一事,並不知情。事後,因廟方曾提出之和解成為張女張冠李戴混淆視聽 之工具。為此,原建議律師羅伯‧高登 (Robert B. Gould) 獲悉後還曾向廟方表示抱歉與遺憾。然而,是非黑白不容顛倒,若有心查證指控內容即可不攻自破。

  筆者以法律人之專業知識及多年承辦案件之經驗,由事件報導內容,親赴西雅圖雷藏寺及密苑逐項了解,將「不可說」之事件分析至此。對應所述內容不知讀者諸君對指控之可信度及真假虛實,是否已清晰可辨?

Sick again

1WU:5:55 2WU:6:33 MQG:1~5

Yesterday decided to visit the Miri acupuncture again. This was the second time I visited him. before visited him, I did visited another acupuncture which I always visited him before, but this acupuncture cannot solved my problem again although my problem still the same. So I have a find a new one which can help me.

What I found the second acupuncture is okay as it really help.
This time still the same medicine but it will reduce two capsule to one, it will be a 30 days course.
I really hope this new acupuncture can help me anyway.

Friday, October 31, 2008

不動明王

不動明王 - I like this photo as he is my protector!

請持『不動明王咒』:『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』。

namo shan ma duo wa ji la hang

『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』。

『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』。

『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』、『南無三滿多哇日拉撼』。

永恆的北極星

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Thursday, October 30, 2008

Meet new friend

1WU:5:25 2WU:5:55 LMQG:1~5

Meet another D brother in facebook.
He is from Perth Australia. Good feeling to meet friend all over the world.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Free music donwload?

Found this web site accidently, but not sure how good it is.
It claim free music download.

The web site it:
http://www.spiralfrog.com

Meet new friend in Facebook

1WU:4:38 2WU:5:42

Meet Augusine Hii in Facebook.
I also not sure how I meet him and add him in my Facebook.
I like to meet lot of friends in this world, and I think mainly he is from Seria, so I added him.

Like to talk and get to know more about him.
I like to have many friend's feeling.

Monday, October 27, 2008

吃維他命不如吃咖哩

1WU:4:12 2WU:5:46 QG:1,2,5 clouded

Source: Email forwarded

不少人每天補充維他命來保健,但美國「新科學家」雜誌卻報導,維他命吃多不但無益健康,反而可能倒是許多人愛吃的咖哩,天然美味,還能預防心血管疾病、阿茲海默症與癌症。

蕃茄咖哩、烏賊咖哩、印度咖哩、日式咖哩、洋蔥咖哩等,街上新開了許多咖哩餐飲店。即使不是專賣咖哩,其他餐飲店也不希望在這波咖哩熱中缺席,知名的甜甜圈 專賣店,發明咖哩口味甜甜圈給客人嚐鮮;便利超商提供咖哩飯、藍帶咖哩三明治等熟食供消費者選擇;火鍋店也有提供咖哩湯頭;便當店也跟著趕時髦,門口特別 標示「咖哩飯」……似乎只要在食物裡加點咖哩,就容易得到消費者的青睞。

咖哩並不是新口味,近來這麼熱門的原因之一,應該是拜醫學研究之賜,有的說可以預防心臟病、有的說可以預防失智症、有的說具消炎作用、有的甚至說可以抑制癌細胞增生……咖哩真有這麼神嗎?

咖哩在預防醫學上的3大捷報
在印度和中醫的臨床治療上,咖哩早就占有一席之地。咖哩成分之一是薑黃,薑黃所含的薑黃素,在印度和傳統中醫是常見的處方之一,外敷用來治療膿腫創傷;內服通常針對肚子脹氣、黃疸、胃痛等症狀。
只是以上療效可能還不足以說服消費者多吃咖哩,因為這些症狀不能算大問題,即使沒有咖哩,還有許多替代方案可以治療,咖哩會紅成這樣,是因為相繼有醫學研究發現,它在預防心血管疾病、失智症(阿茲海默症)、還有癌症等棘手疾病上,可以扮演重要的角色。

捷報1》降低膽固醇,減少動脈硬化
陽明大學醫學院藥理學研究所副教授陳惠文所領導的研究團隊,在針對心血管疾病進行研究時,意外發現咖哩的妙用。包括減少血栓、減少動脈硬化、降低脂肪酸、降低膽固醇等4大問題,咖哩都有很好的預防效果,國內外也都有論文支持這樣的論點。

捷報2》預防阿茲海默症
陳惠文解釋:「薑黃素可減少變性蛋白在我們腦中神經間的沉積,避免神經細胞受損所造成的記憶力喪失和混亂。」因而可預防阿茲海默症。

捷報3》抑制癌細胞增生和轉移
現 在醫學界也針對「咖哩可否減少癌症」作了許多研究,其中咖哩可預防癌症的研究較多,而咖哩會致癌的研究相對少很多。陳惠文分析:「癌症是不正常細胞過度增 生,薑黃素本身就可以抑制不正常細胞過度增生;第二,薑黃素可減少癌症轉移的機會;第三,在癌症標靶療法上,薑黃素會抑制癌細胞特別的一些酵素,這些酵素 會造成細胞的增生和轉移。」

關於咖哩的好處還不只這些,咖哩有「印度黃金」的美名,相關的研究包括:可以治療青春痘、不正常搔癢、皮膚病、不正常出血、氣喘、喉嚨發炎、咳嗽;改善腦貧血症狀、肝膽疾病、糖尿病、眼疾……還有人在化妝品裡加入咖哩成分,可見熱門程度。

哪些人不適合吃咖哩
雖然世界各國作過不少關於咖哩的研究,說明吃咖哩好處多多,不過,陳惠文指出,多數是「預防醫學的範圍」,在西醫的臨床用藥上,咖哩還沒有被普遍當作處方,原因之一是劑量與人體吸收的問題。
如果是用在預防心血管疾病、阿茲海默症,他說:「1、2週吃一次,偶一為之也就夠了,天天都吃咖哩也受不了。」要提醒的是,咖哩的功效是「預防」阿茲海默症,已出現症狀的人,吃再多也沒有用。
如果用在預防癌症方面,劑量就比較高。美國癌症醫學中心就有專家建議,「給癌症病人一天吃5~7克 的薑黃素」(在美國一般超市可買到顆粒狀的萃取薑黃素),效果還沒有明確結論,不過,根據台大醫院先前所做的第一期臨床試驗發現,就算連續幾個月吃這麼 多,也還沒出現明顯的副作用,陳惠文表示:「目前為止,還沒有『吃太多薑黃素不好』的報導,不過,還是提醒大家『再好的東西』,吃過量都是不好的。」
事實上,也有一些人不適合吃咖哩,耕莘醫院永和分院營養師薛安栗提醒:「1.咖哩通常加了辣椒、胡椒,對於腸胃炎、胃潰瘍的人會造成刺激;2.會促進子宮收縮,婦女懷孕期間要節制;3.會刺激膽囊收縮,膽結石患者不適合多吃;4.咖哩還會抑制血小板凝結,罹患血液凝結疾病的人最好避免。」


不愛咖哩味 可改吃什麼來防癌?
對於喜歡咖哩口味的人,聽到「吃多了也無妨」當然很高興﹔可是,還有另一部分的人,並不是那麼喜歡咖哩的味道,該用什麼食材來取代?
薛安栗說:「薑和黃芥茉當中,也都含有薑黃素,所以,烹調食物時加點薑,或是吃東西時沾點黃芥茉醬,都可攝取到相同的營養素。」還有就是黃咖哩和綠咖哩所含的薑黃素,不會因顏色而有差異,她指出:「咖哩一般是黃色,如果加了青椒這類綠色材料,就會變綠咖哩。」

搭配哪些食材 營養價值更高
如果沒有以上問題,多數人都可安心享受美味咖哩料理,為了讓咖哩具備更多健康食物的條件,薛安栗建議:「搭配抗氧化的食材更好,像是花椰菜、胡蘿蔔、洋蔥、 蕃茄等,既美味又健康。」如果以主食類來說,「加點牛肉,含鐵量高,抗氧化功能較好;如果擔心膽固醇問題,那就選擇雞肉和海鮮。」
一般人煮咖哩都會煮一大鍋,在冰箱分2、3天食用,薛安栗認為:「如果加了蔬果,就不要放過夜;或是蔬果先不要加進去,等要吃的時候再加,比較符合健康飲食原則。」
弄清楚咖哩的功效,也瞭解如何搭配食材,就可更放心享受一頓咖哩大餐囉!

Sunday, October 26, 2008

什麼時候要把我的手還給我?

Source: Forwarded Email:

在美國的加州有一個小女孩大約是4 歲
她的父親有一台大卡車,她的父親非常喜歡那台卡車
總是為那台車做全套的保養,以保持卡車的美觀
一天,小女孩拿著硬物在他父親的卡車鈑金上劃下了無數的刮痕 !!
她的父親盛怒之下,用鐵絲把小女孩的手綁起來
然後吊著小女孩的手,讓她站在車庫罰! 站
當父親想起小女兒在車庫罰站時,已經是 4個小時過後了!
趕到車庫時,小女孩的手已經被鐵絲綁的血液不通!
父親送她到急診室時,已經需要截去小女孩的手掌了 !
因為,手掌部分的組織已! 經都壞死,如不截去手掌 ...
她生命是非常危險,甚至可能會危害到小女孩的生命 ...
所以小女孩就這樣失去了她的一雙手掌了 !
但是她不懂 .....她不懂到底是發生了什麼事在她的身上 ....
而她的父親也因為這樣感到萬分的愧疚 !
過了約半年後
小女孩的父親的卡車進廠重新烤漆,又像全新的一樣!!
當他把卡車開回家後,小女孩看著重新烤漆過的卡車
對著她的父親說
{Daddy,your truck looking so pretty, same like new truck.}
<<爸爸! 你的卡車好漂亮唷!看起來就像是新卡車>>
這時小女孩無邪的伸出了她那截斷的雙手,對她的父親說
{but, when you want put my hand back to me??}
<<但是你什麼時候要把我的手還給我?? >>
你們知道當那位父親聽到小女孩問他的問題時,發生了什麼事嗎 ?
那位父親在小女孩的面前 ..... 舉槍自殺...
很多人分不清 .....到底什麼是重要的?
只會無知迷失在自我的喜好當中 ...
就如有些人會去 慈濟幫忙掃街,但家事從來不管...
有些人會花很多錢去建廟,但對自己的親人如鐵公雞...
有些人在外面和言悅色,但對自己的卻家人暴躁如雷 ...
這就是說那個父親不知是車子重要,或是女兒重要呢?
而遺憾的事.....世間到處充滿了這些事 ...
而且就在你我之間...
只要是金錢可以買到的;
都比不上無價的可貴,
請不要吝嗇,多給家人一點愛!

很有意義的十句話

Source: Forwareded Email:

第一句
沒有一百分的另一半 只有五十分的兩個人
第二句
付出真心 才會得到真心 卻也可能傷得徹底
保持距離 就能保護自己 卻也註定永遠寂寞
第三句
通常願意留下來跟你爭吵的人 才是真正愛你的人
第四句
有時候 不是對方不在乎你 而是你把對方看得太重
第五句
冷漠 有時候並不是無情 只是一種避免被傷害的工具
第六句
如果我們之間有 1000 步的距離 你只要跨出第1步
我就會朝你的方向走其餘的 999 步
第七句
為你的難過而快樂的 是敵人
為你的快樂而快樂的 是朋友
為你的難過而難過的 就是那些 該放進心裡的人
第八句
就算是 believe 中間也藏了一個 lie
第九句
真正的好朋友 並不是在一起就有聊不完的話題
而是在一起 就算不說話 也不會感到尷尬
第十句
朋友就是被你看透了 還能喜歡你的人

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Saturday, feeling good!

1WU:3:48 2WU"5:45

Wakeup early as usual. Doing my daily Dharma practice. May be yesterday's Miri trip causing too tired, so I went to sleep at around 9:30pm last night.

Yes, I went to Miri for seeking the acupuncture again. Same price RM$15.00 with the same medicine I use to take every time; one bottle of medicine to clear out my body heat and after this bottle of medicine then eat the tablet medicine, always three day medicines.

Back to Mumong, Kuala Belait around 6:30pm, felt so tired and hungry.
Went to bath and have my heavy dinner; I did not have this type of eating style for quite some time. Ate too much if I am too hungry. Cannot control myself. Usually I ate 70%~80% full, but yesterday I think I ate 100% full, it's really not too healthy to me.

Today is Saturday and I am feeling good, although I still wake up earlier as usual.
Still a bit headache but may be it's a not working day, so feeling good.
Will meet Qing later and will back to home at around 11:30pm as plan.

This morning also found a good online translation web site. This one is from Google.com. I think I knew where this Google is getting better and better as, as they hearing from their clients. I also keep a eye on this company and found it really "keep improve" company. I use lot of Googles's products like Gmail, Bloggers and now it's online translation page. I like it and will throw away Yahoo online translation which I use it quite long time.

Friday, October 24, 2008

Beware Of Paper On The Back Window Of Your Vehicle

1WU:5:43 LNQG:1~5 + M TMQG:1,2,3,5

Source: from forwarded email:
Warning....!!!!Just last weekend on Friday night we parked in a public parking area. As we drove away I noticed a sticker on the rear window of the car.

When I took it off after I got home, it was a receipt for gas. Luckily my friend told me not to stop as it could be someone waiting for me to get out of the car.

Then we received this email yesterday: WARNING FROM POLICE - BEWARE OF PAPER ON THE BACK WINDOW OF YOUR VEHICLE - NEW WAY TO DO CAR PACKINGS Heads up everyone!

Please, keep this circulating... You walk across the parking lot, unlock your car and get inside. You start the engine and shift into Reverse. When you look into the rear view mirror to back out of your parking space, you notice a piece of paper stuck to the middle of the rear window.

So, you shift into Park, unlock your doors, and jump out of your car to remove that paper (or whatever it is)that is obstructing your view. When you reach the back of your car, that is when the carjackers appear out of nowhere, jump into your car and take off.

They practically mow you down as they speed off in your car. And guess what, ladies? I bet your purse is still in the car. So now the carjacker has your car, your home address, your money, and your keys. Your home and your whole identity are now compromised!

BEWARE OF THIS NEW SCHEME THAT IS NOW BEING USED. If you see a piece of paper stuck to your back window, just drive away. Remove the paper later. And be thankful that you read this e-mail. I hope you will forward this to friends and family, especially to women. A purse contains all kinds of; personal information and identification documents, and you certainly do NOT want this to fall into the wrong hands. Please keep this going.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Online translation Gadget

Add Google Translate Gadget on this blog.
Find this online translating tool for long time already.
The html Java code can be found at http://www.google.com/webmasters/gadgets/.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Reincarnation - we will rebirth again?

1WU:5:45 LNQG:1~5 + T:1,2

Today no QiGong class, so felt a bit relax after work.
Raining in the afternoon and I like raining day, but not at working hour. I like raining at night. I like the feeling, do not know why I like raining at night. May be it's a last life memory causing.

Regarding the last life. I believed it. As sometime when we meet someone, our feeling is different. Sometime you will like this man or women, and sometime you will dislike this man or women without any reason.

Last life can explain lot of things that we cannot expected. Like some case why a father dislike his son without reason, every time he saw his son, will angry and scold him with a minor mistake. For the rest of the brothers and sister, this father's action will not like that. So this can recall to this relation to last life reincarnation. So I believed the theory of reincarnation.

As this reincarnation can explain why you love this man/women and married with him/her.
I seem lot of the example around. There is proof of reincarnation of some books I read. I tried to find reincarnation on the net, there is 20,700,000 results. So I think more and more people believed reincarnation.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

No Seat for SIA

LNQG:1~5 M TMQG:1,2,5 WU:6:00

Found thre is no more seats for SIA on date: 12nd to 15th December, 2008. It is a special day for Brunei Student.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

My Birthday Photos

My Birthday Cake
Other photos can view at:
My Birthday Photos







My birthday today

Still wake up very early in the morning. Raining day, not heavy rain.

Still doing my daily Dharma practice and QG practice for 4 routine.

Will go to meet and have breakfast with Dharma brothers and sister in Seria later.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Birthday today

Birthday today and felt very busy as so many things have to do, so not related with my birthday but some related.

Only invited 3 Dharma brothers and one sister came for my birthday.
Do the cultivation in the earlier morning for this birthday especially praying for my mum as Buddhist's thought is birthday is "Mother's disaster" day as it was the most dangerous day for a mother.

I will tried to post some photos and video(taken by my niece) when I am free by tomorrow.

Friday, October 17, 2008

No electricity last night

I just back from QiGong practice and not yet shower, try to arrange the visa form for QiGong students who will go to KL on 13th for upgrading, there was no light at all, black out in the sudden.

So first thing I have to find is my switched off mobile which I switched it off when back from QiGong practiced, as I do not want anyone to disturbed me when I going to sleep.

So after I found my mobile, switch it on and came out from my room. The family seem not so scared but even the street light were all off.

SPY called King and asking for the electricity status and she mention there is NO light at all. So luckily we have the torch. Have to find the candles and lighter. After done all these things, it's almost 9:40pm, then Shao have to wait for his second son back from the Karate. He was backed and mention he will drove back to Seria and may come back if there was electricity again.

I felt a bit tired and did not sleep very well last night, but still went to take my shower. After the shower, I felt really tired and went to sleep. It was a good sleep anyway although I wake up at around 5:25pm, it was consider a good sleep to me.

What a black out night!

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

How safe is our plastic bottle?

I asked this question myself, and also ask the internet in http://www.lexxe.com/, but the answer is NOT 100% sure how safe is our plastic bottle. The answer still got dispute. So here the result I found in lexxe.com:


I think there is lot of argument for this topics.

The reason why I concern is we all use plastic bottle daily, especially the reuse of plastic water.

I received a forwarded email said that DO NOT use plastic bottle at all. So can I reuse my plastic bottle, the answer is : I don't know. Depend how you believe the information they given.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

I like dawn photo

I like to watch the beautiful scenery daily, epecially the cloud. It keeps changing every second every days. The changing sometime make me so exited that I have to take the photos.

So this is one of the photo I took that day.

Monday, October 13, 2008

1WU:6:30am QG:1~5

Felt quite exited and happy yesterday as doing some Dharma practice.
Very good feeling after listening the Dharma talk. Especially interaction with Dharma brothers and sisters.

I think I more like "mind" 心靈matter, not material's stuff. I consider money is a way of life, and money is neutral stuff. If you use in the good way, then it can help lot of human beings, if not, you can see the newspaper money related crimes is all around.

I think cultivation is very important to me although I did not do the cultivation daily recently as I just moved. I hope I can find a very good way to get back all my cultivation action. I have to pray a lot and chanting a lot too in order to recall back all my daily cultivation.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

How true it is?


Source: Email

This is amazing tree named "Nareepol" in Thai. Naree means "girl/woman" and pol means plant/tree or "buah" in Malay. It means women tree. It is amazing what God create the World in many forms that amused human beings...

You can see the real tree at Petchaboon province about almost 500 kms away from Bangkok.


You guys should see this...



You can see the real tree at Petchaboon province about almost 500 kms away from Bangkok.

My friendster blog

Did not surf to friendster for so long.
Today login is for a niece who will birthday on coming 12 Oct, 2008.
Just login and exploring to see where there is any news features.

Just found their blog is related with wordpress.com, good feature anyway as I also have a blog in wordpress anyway.

My blog in friendster.

Friday, October 10, 2008

Espeed slow again?

Last night did not went QiGong class as some activities I have to attend.
SMS to Wong but he did not reply anything, just wonder DST sms system is delayed again or not.
Although there is several mobile provider, but I think they have the competitive but after awhile, they stop the racing. Price drop was the BIG change I think, but I hope the main thing is not ONLY the price dropped. I really hope their servicing is getting better and better.

The first good impression I got is Espeed is getting real 512 Kbps which is matching what we subscribed, not like previouly is only have 248 Kbps or 321 Kbps, never go up to 512 Kbps, sometime I even checked and found that their speed is a bit over 512 Kbps. That's really good improvement. The sad thing is I still always heard the complain of their speed. My Dharma sister mention why their dial up still very slow, I mention to her, it cannot compare with 512 Kbps speed, but she mention the dial up speed sometime is slower than normally surfing. Anothing thing is my office kids also complain why yesterday surfing and online gaming is so slow, although reset the modem, still the same problem.

I am not sure it was cuase by the online gaming server or not, but what I surf in the morning, is still okay.

Thursday, October 09, 2008

Seiketsu Demo

My Seiketsu upline Yin came with KL demo person came to my new home for the demo.
This time mainly on Seiketsu cooking demo.
She really have the very good experience of introduce the product, I like the way she presenting.

I just listened carefully what she said and forgot to take any of the photos, so mean that her introduction is very attracting me.

I also got surprised my niece also get attraction with her talk and decisided to buy one of the product. I think mainly is for her mum. Actually I also like Seiketsu products but I have to select the one just right to me.

You can surf to Seiketsu their official web site to have a look of their various products.

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Toolbar error

1WU:5:17 2WU:6:17 QG:1~5 LNQG:1~5

Found the following error message while I want to install the Yahoo toolbar and Google toolbar in FireFox broswer.

Strange that both Yahoo toolbar and Google toolbar got the almost same error message. Both of them cannot be installed. I think I have to clear out all the temp files and try it again.

Monday, October 06, 2008

New born baby

This morning got a good message from Qing, her daughter finally got a new born baby boy.
Not really waiting for this good news, but still got good feeling when got this news.
Don't know when I can see this new born baby, hope will be soon.

Saturday, October 04, 2008

乾洗會傷害身體 Dry Cleaning is bad for Health

Source: Email
Related website(in Chinese): 乾洗劑─高氯酸乙烯和甲醛
乾洗會傷害身體 Dry Cleaning is bad for Health

我跟我先生之前在洗衣工廠工作,他會接觸到乾洗劑,結果做快一年身體變得很虛弱 (變成奧少年),檢查的結果是肝臟有問題離職後調養了好幾年,才慢慢好起來。

他的結論是:沒事衣物不要送乾洗,用水手洗最乾淨 ....

請用力告訴你的朋友吧!!

清潔劑不是在洗的時候才會傷害...................

法國 2歲男童夢中窒息喪命 床單窗簾乾洗溶劑惹禍!

衣物送乾洗,竟然害小孩因此送了命?

在法國一位 2 歲男童,因為家長將床單、窗簾等等全部送乾洗,上頭還殘留有毒的乾洗有機溶劑,導致小男童在睡夢中窒息送命,是全球罕見的致死案例!

因此醫師特別提醒,乾洗衣物一定要擺到沒有味道後再穿、再收藏比較安全。

衣服送乾洗後,上頭一定會有股化學味道,相信很多民眾都很熟悉,只是沒想到洗得乾乾淨淨的衣物,上面殘留的氣味卻成了殺人兇手,在法國就奪走一位 2歲男童的性命。

元兇就是致命的乾洗劑、四氯乙烯,而這種乾洗劑在國內還有 1百多家店正在使用。

林口長庚毒物科主任林杰樑指出,四氯乙烯恐怕會造成肝腎傷害,有致癌的疑慮,且濃度高的話還可能麻痺呼吸,致人於死!至於大部分乾洗店用的石油矽,也還是具有肝毒性。

怎麼知道自己是不是置身於致命環境中,林杰樑表示,其實只要聞得到化學氣味,就代表濃度已經超過100PPM,絕對不能逗留超過 15 分鐘。

至於拿回家的乾洗衣物,一定要先拿掉防塵塑膠套,擺到沒有氣味後再收藏、再穿,才不會對身體有害。

Today felt not like Saturday

1WU:6:17 2WU:6:36 QG:1~5

Today felt not like Saturday as I have several holiday.
Yesterday Miri trip felt a bit tired but bought lot of necessary stuffs for family and for myself. Very satisfactorily trip.

Today got no much plan to go anywhere. May be it's time for me to do a real rest for today. Read some books and watch the unfinished HK drama series. May be go to visit friend, still got no any plan yet.

Friday, October 03, 2008

Go to Miri today

1WU:6:15 QG:1~5

Suppose the drive should come earlier at 7:00pm but he mention the alarm was no ringing him up.

So We have to wait until 8:50am. There was not so long queue at Brunei and Miri custom(but what I heard there was long queue at around 10:00am, we are lucky anyway).

First thing in Miri was the breakfast although it was a bit late. 4 person contributed RM$15.00 for our breakfast, just enough for 5 of us. Tim Sum was the main course. I also ordered noodle. (The photo showed the Tim Sam we ordered and the driver. )

Shopping took several hours. Spy, Lo and me have to watch the movie "Stranger" as the driver and his GF will have their facial treatment for two hours.

"Stranger" this movie was not so nice film anyway, not worth to watch as I don't like the very simple stories although it was a bit scary. I will give only Grade D!

Back from Miri at 8:30pm.
Buy Shoe, Queen bed sheet, book etc. Spent about few hundread RM$.

Thursday, October 02, 2008

First day of Hari Raya, doing trivia stuffs

1WU:5:17 2WU:5:38 3WU:6:03 QG:1~5

First day of Hari Raya, no planning to go anywhere.

Still surfing to the net in the morning after QiGong practice. Checking and doing my finance transaction at my WalletProof.com. Quite sometime did not update my expenses. Checking my bank balance online and found this month spent quite a lot.

New bed, new mattress for new room is the most expensive expense for this month.

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

No working today

When I arrived office this morning and found no one is working. Today should be a working day but no one appeared. Never mind, may be they will arrived a bit late.

So I switched on my two PCs and starting to begin my work.
I switched on the new Hi-Fi system and tried to do the preset of the radio station, read the manual and finally done several preset radio stations.

Make a coffee for myself and surf to the net.
Still no one appear, so I tried to call my boss.
My boss mention she did not informed me today is off day although today suppose to be a working day.

So felt free and called Xing. Then I closed the office and to went to Seria to check the TV LCD price with Xing.

The shop owner told us our chapter's notebook only can use the normal vga output which may cause the display a bit blur, but he did not have the vga cable so cannot test. Have to wait until tonight see whether can get the cable from his brother.

Hari Raya Eve

1WU:3:02 2WU:528 3WU:6:10

Today suppose is a Muslim Hari Raya but they did not manage to view the "new moon" so their Hari Raya will fall on tomorrow; mean that the two days holiday starting by tomorrow.

No much plan for this two days holiday, but already promise Dharma brother to check the price of the LCD or Plasma TV at Seria.

Yersterday there was crownded of people queue up at petrol station, luckily I did not on that queue although I planned to fill up my fuel too. Today should be a good time for me to fill up my half tank fuel.

Just link a Hari Raya photo from someone else, hope he don't mind.
I also wish all the best to all or world Muslim " Selamat Hari Raya"

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Coffee mood

1wu:5:10 2WU:5:30 QG:1~5

Still wake up early in this Sunday morning. I think the medicine was starting to take effort as I felt much better before taken the medicine. Yesterday night still felt a bit tired but went to sleep at around 11:00pm, no dream and I also felt than there was not much dream like before after taken the medicine.

Although the acupuncture advice me not to drink any coffee or tea as these drinks will make me nervous and will affect my sleeping, but I really have a mood to drink coffee yesterday, so I still drink a cup of light coffee. I think drinking coffee is a kind of moody stuff, for me it my mind keep of think to have a cup of coffee then I cannot stand and wait to have one, I just want it. But I told my self I cannot drink too much when I still taken my medicine these days. So after dinner, I finally select a chocolate drink rather than any drink with caffeine. I don't myself is addicted with coffee, sometime I did not even drink a cup of coffee within one day.

This morning still feeling good although I have drink a cup of coffee yesterday, which not follow the advice of the acupuncture.What I told to my self than I am not the one who drink coffee then cannot sleep at night. I did drink coffee at night at around 9pm or 10pm, and there was no effect to me while sleeping at night. May be I already immunized with the coffee caffeine as I drink coffee since I am very young, school age at around 10 or earlier.

I like coffee anyway, but do not like black coffee, and do not like too sweet coffee. What about you? I think lot of people like coffee, I did read one of the book saying that drinking coffee just like the feeling to have a great relaxation, yes, I think I have the same feeling.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

My December Singapore trip hotel

Find a good web site to locate the hotels in Singapore:

Classique Hotel Location

From the map, the MRT is quite near but I hope it is not so far away from my hotel.

I also want to find out what is around at this hotel, any shopping center and so on...

Still got time to find as my trip is at December.

PASS THIS INFO TO WHOM YOU CARE

PASS THIS INFO TO WHOM YOU CARE

The top five cancer-causing foods are:
1. Hot dogs

Because they are high in nitrates,the Cancer Prevention Coalition advises that children eat no more than 12 hot dogs a month. If you can't live without hot dogs, buy those made without sodium nitrate.

2. Processed meats and bacon
Also high in the same sodium nitrates found in hot dogs, bacon, and other processed meats raise the risk of heart disease. The saturated fat in bacon also contributes to cancer.

3. Doughnuts
Doughnuts are cancer-causing double trouble. First, they are made with white flour, sugar, and hydrogenated oils, then fried at high temperatures. Doughnuts, says Adams , may be the worst food you can possibly eat to raise your risk of cancer.


4. French fries
Like doughnuts, French fries are made with hydrogenated oils and then fried at high temperatures. They also contain cancer- causing acryl amides which occur during the frying process. They should be called cancer fries, not French fries, said Adams .

All are usually made with white flour and sugar. Even the ones whose labels claim to be free of trans-fats generally contain small amounts of trans-fats.

1. No Breakfast
People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level.
This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.

2. Overeating
It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.

3. Smoking
It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease.

4. High Sugar consumption
Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.

5. Air Pollution
The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency.

6. Sleep Deprivation
Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.

7. Head covered while sleeping
Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects.

8. Working your brain during illness
Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.

9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts
Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.

10. Talking Rarely
Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain

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The main causes of liver damage are:

1. Sleeping too late and waking up too late are main cause.
2. Not urinating in the morning.
3. Too much eating.
4. Skipping breakfast.
5. Consuming too much medication.
6. Consuming too much preservatives, additives, food coloring, and artificial sweetener.
7. Consuming unhealthy cooking oil. As much as possible reduce cooking oil use when frying, which includes even the best cooking oils like olive oil. Do not consume fried foods when you are tired, except if the body is very fit.
8. Consuming raw (overly done) foods also add to the burden of liver.
Veggies should be eaten raw or cooked 3-5 parts. Fried veggies should be finished in one sitting, do not store.

We should prevent this without necessarily spending more. We just have to adopt a good daily lifestyle and eating habits. Maintaining good eating habits and time condition are very important for our bodies to absorb and get rid of unnecessary chemicals according to 'schedule.'

DO TAKE CARE ABOUT YOUR HEALTH AND PASS THIS TO ALL WHOM YOU LOVE!

Saturday's life

1WU:5 2WU:5:49 QG:1~5

Today will breakfast with Qing, will fetch her on the road.
I have to pass her her itinerary and gave her the Singapore ceremony schedule.
I really hope Fu will confirm us for our 2 room by today, will called her anyway.

Need to pay the water bill before fetch Qing. Take P. O. Box letter as I did not open it for sometime. May go back old hourse to take some necessary stuffs.

Also may go to Sungalian to buy something, do not know Qing will come with me or not.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Miri Mall, Important for Girls/Women!

Source: Email

This happen in Mall Miri. I just recieve this and would like to share to all Miri community.
To the men : warn your loved ones!
To the women : remember this!

About a month ago there was a woman standing by the Mega Mall entrance passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written the flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she might warn other women.

The previous day, this woman had finished shopping, went out to her car and discovered that she had a flat. She got the jack out of the trunk and began to change the flat. A nice man dressed in business suit and carrying a briefcase walked up to her and said,

'I notice you're changing a flat tire. Would you like me to take care of it for you?'
The woman was grateful for his offer and accepted his help. They chatted amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the flat tire and the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.

The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her car, the man told her that he left his car around on the other side of the mall, and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car. She was a little surprised and asked him why his car was on the other side. He explained that he had met an old friend in the mall whom he hadn't seen for some time and they had a bite to eat and visited for a while; he got turned around in the mall and left through the wrong exit, and now he was running late and his car was clear around on the other side of the mall.

The woman hated to tell him 'no' because he had just rescued her from having to change her flat tire all by herself, but she felt uneasy. Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk before shutting it and before he asked her for the ride to his car.
She told him that she'd be happy to drive him to his car, but she just remembered one last thing she needed to buy. She said she would only be a few minutes; he could sit down in her car and wait for her; she would be as quick as she could be. She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had happened; the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left.

They opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it down to the police station. The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID so they could return it to the man). What they found was rope, duct tape and knives.

When the police checked her 'flat' tire, there was nothing wrong with it; the air had simply been let out. It was obvious what the man's motive was, and obvious that he had carefully thought it out in advance.

The woman was blessed to have escaped harm. How much worse it would have been had she waited in the car while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby strapped into a car seat. Or if she'd gone against her judgment and given him a lift. I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know.

It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only; but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it on to them as well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it....better safe than sorry.

PLEASE BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY!

6 minutes of sharing

Source: Email

ONE.
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE.
Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR.
When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE.
When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX.
Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN.
Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT.
Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.


NINE.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.
In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.


ELEVEN.
Don't judge people by their relatives.


TWELVE.
Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN.
When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN.
Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk..

FIFTEEN.
Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN.
When you lose, don't lose the lesson


SEVENTEEN.
Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN.
Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.


NINETEEN.
When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY.
Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY-ONE.
Spend some time alone.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Firefox broswer 3.01 cannot open Yahoo email

My firefox browser on my Acer Aspire 2920 laptop have strange error.
The Yahoo mail got the following error when I login:

Strange that my FireFox browser is the latest version. Just wonder why it cannot run properly. I did tried to uninstall firefox and reinstall firefox 3.01, still the same problem.

I used IE 7.0 and it was okay. Software problem? I got no idea at all.

Life after work

Went to Miri this afternoon at around 3:00pm after heard my Dharma brother introduce me a Miri acunpunture. So decided to visit him.

It seem a big rush to go to Miri in the late afternoon, just I managed to arrived Miri at around 4:20pm. The acupuncture gave me 10 days medicine as I told him I was from KB.

I did some shopping at Bolevard. Back to Brunei around 6:20pm. Qing called me on my back to Pandan Lapan. She cannot hear my voice so I told her I will called back to her.

After shower, went to Soon Lee Megamark to buy the plastic PVC floor mat for my new room. Cost B$3.00 per meter, I bought 8 meter. Bought 3 small carpet also for my room.
Back home and felt tired, so I quick charged my batter and get ready to call Qing.

Surf and do some blogging until 9:15pm, felt too tired. Shutdown my notebook and called Qing. Told her I suggested she stay with the rest of the student when she and Mei Fang in Singapore. The 4 days 3 night charge will be B$280.00. Quite reasonable and cheap too as we have to stay 3 night, they travel agent provide the transportation to and from Airport, to Singapore Expo, the ceremony hall. Good price to me. So I also thinking to stay with this package.

After talked to her. I went to sleep, oh, yes, before sleep I have to take the medicine.
Felt okay this morning after the first taken of the medicine. I really hope this acupuncture's treatment can help me to solve my sleeping problem.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Excel 2007 crash on Vista

1WU:4:50 2WU:5:25 LNQG:1~5 TQG:1~5

Found this Miscrosoft office Excel 2007 crashed when I tried to save a new file.
No solution for this crash at the moment. As it just crashed and Vista only give the following error message and I have to close the program.
Now I don't know it is cause by hardware or software, probably what I think is software. Anyone have the solution? Please do let me know.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Wedding Dinner

Last night went to QiGong student's son wedding dinner. The dinner end around 10:00pm. Felt tired so rush to home, luckily I do not have to rush to Seria, short distance this time.

I did not bring my Camera so no photos taken, but my QiGong student want me to take photo with them. May be I will get some photos from her and post it here.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Busy Saturday

Sunny Saturday today, hope today will like this kind of weather, sunny day!

Today suppose will be a relax day but stuffs just let me busy. Have to clean out all the stuffs I brought from old house. Yes, I have moved! Moved to the middle of Seria-KB.

Actually lived at here for several weeks already, NOT decided moved to here in the first place, but after several weeks staying, so decided to stay here for a long period.

New place, new arrangement. Go to work will be nearer. No rush, but will not going to Seria quite often. KB will be my area already.

Still will breakfast with friends in Seria during Sunday. Just that have to confirm with them first before going to Seria.

I will missed Seria anyway although it was so near.

After preparing my November trip luggage, it seem so early to prepare, but early better than late. I am not the one who travel tomorrow then prepare tonight.

Then bring soil from downstairs

Friday, September 19, 2008

Open the windows after you enter your car

Source: Email
開車前必先把窗打開透透氣!!

English translation at bottom
開車前請先 開窗
開車的民 眾要注意,根據美國加州大學的研究發現,汽車的儀表板、沙發、內裝和芳香劑,會揮發致癌物質「苯」。
苯類化合 物是很強的致癌物質,也是很強的骨髓毒性物質,它會造成一般人的貧血或者是白血球稀少,長期暴露的話,得到白血病,就是 血癌的風險大為增加,有些孕婦還會因此流產。
和室內每立方公尺苯的正常標準值50微克相比,室溫下的密閉汽車裡含有400到800微克的苯,如果在太陽下曝曬1小時,溫度超過攝氏60度,苯含量更高達2千到4千微克,是正常標準的40倍以上,開車族不能倖免吸入過量的苯。
林口長庚 毒物科主任林杰樑:「你的愛車停在太陽底下超過1個鐘頭,甚至不需要1個鐘頭的時候,你要去開車的時候,你要切記,一定 要把窗戶搖開把門打開,讓這些有毒氣體揮散掉以後,你才能夠開車。」醫師指出,「苯」屬於肝腎代謝的有毒化學物質,人體很難自然排出,只能提醒民 眾在開車 前請先開窗。

Open the windows after you enter your car

In brief, the above article says: According to research done by a U.C., the car dashboard, sofa, air freshener will emit Benzene, a cancer causing toxin (carcinogen). In addition to causing cancer, it poisons your bones, causes anemia, and reduces white blood cells. Prolonged exposure will cause Leukemia, increasing the risk of cancer. May also cause miscarriage.

Acceptable Benezene level indoors is 50 mg per sq. ft. A car parked indoors with the windows closed will contain 400-800 mg of Benezene. If parked outdoors under the sun at a temperature above 60 degrees F, the Benezene level goes up to 2000-4000 mg, 40 times the acceptable level. The people inside the car will inevitably inhale an excess amount of the toxin.

It is recommended that you open the windows and door to give time for the interior to air out before you enter. Benzene is a toxin that affects your kidney and liver, and is difficult for your body to expel.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Defraggler - good freeware

Found this Defraggler freeware when surfing on a Taiwan blog.
The author recommended that this is a good software and it's free of charge!

So tried to download this software, very small, less than 1M.
This freeware can run on WindowsXP and Windows Vista.

Read more information on this software.

Monday, September 15, 2008

The Game - Candle Blowing

This video showed one of the game playing during our QiGong group Mid Autumn Festival(MoonCake Festival)celebration.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

BSB Moon Cake Festival

1WU:5:55 2WU:6:05

Although I backed from Bandar Seri Begawan late last night at around 1:15am, but I still waked up earlier as I do not have much sleeping mood again when waked up. Sure will feeling not so good as still not enought sleep. But I always got only 5~6 hours sleeping time these days. Still okay to me althought I felt I have no enought sleep. Still went to work daily and tea break with friend on my spare time.

Back to last night dinner story.
I drove my car to Tamu Saji at around 3:40pm, as the bus will leaving at 4:00pm. Arrived Tamu Saji and the bus was there. Only 4 QiGong student in the bus already. We waited until 4:15pm then all the 20 students arrived. We stopped at Sungallian Soon Lee supermarket as quite a numbers of student need to go to wash room. After 5~19 minutes, then left the supermarket.

Arrived Bandar around 6:15pm.
The dinner started at around 7:30pm. There was lot of Karaoke including me also got chance to sang. Photo showed was FungMei teacher sang the song and her husband gave her the flower. Good and sweet feeling!
2 dances and several games in between of the dinner.

Lot of funs anyway. The dinner end at around 11:20pm.
I have uploaded all the photos in photobucket.com anyway:

Qigong Moon Cake Festival photos.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Today's diary

1WU:4:10 2WU:5:12 QG:1~5

This morning will breakfast with Qing. Already sms her on Thursday, long time did not chat with her, today will be a good time to find her.

After at 4:00pm will go to Tamu Saji to meet QiGong students. Get the bus then travel to BSB for Bandar QiGong association Moon Cake festival dinner. Cost B$20.00 each person. We will have do some shopping before go the restaurant.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Moon Cake Festival

1WU:5:25 LNQG:1~5 TQG:1~5

We have Moon Cake Festival last night at Chung Hwa School, Kuala Belait.
We practiced 5 routine at around 7:00pm, then starting our celebration.
Lot of food which bring by all the QiGong students.
After the dinner then we have some games playing, lot of fun.
The following is the links of the photos.

Moon Cake Festival photos.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

First day QiGong practice at flat

1WU:4:45 2WU:5:30 LNQG:1~5 x 2

Today is the first time I waked up so early at flat, new home.
No mood to lay back to bed when waked up, so practice QiGong.

Hope I can practice QiGong in the morning daily and non stop, keep going.
It was not easy to keep practice everyday. Anyway I will try my best to do it.

Tuesday, September 09, 2008

40 Tips for Better Life

Source: Email

1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26.. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. GOD ! heals everything.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
30. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
31. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
32. The best is yet to come.
33. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
34. Do the right thing!
35. Call your family often.
36. Your inner most is always happy. So be happy.
37. Each day give something good to others.
38. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
39. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.

Moon cake festival


Moon cake festival, have some mooncake!






Monday, September 08, 2008

Do some widgets for this blog

That day I want to checked this blog for "Fun" label(Category) and I cannot find my label. That's no good, I though blogger will automatically added it on if I have the label's. Today manage to added it manually.

Another thing, I also cannot found "About Me" content.
So have to add in manually again.
Also adding daily photo from National Geographic and SMS text messager(no should work or not, but I cannot find Brunei, so many be have to use Malaysian line).
This widgets finally run successfully and I also found blogger have add some new features for the layouts. Good! Keep updating and refreshing.

Saturday, September 06, 2008

她的故事

早起.昨夜雖然不是說很好睡.但也就是說比上幾晚好很多了.
也會不需要賴床, 也完成了在新家第一次練五節動功.
在此也住了好多晚,雖然說星期四那晚還是有回老家, 有點半被迫吧.也想回去拿點東西來.

她在工人走了一天後, 才打電話來說去玉家住.
她本來是要工人走了那天去玉家的, 但玉要去美里. 所以她自己一人在家.
想到她會打電話的.一大早就打到榮家去了.然後再打給玉和卿. 說教人去打開大門.說丟下鎖匙.把大門開.但她能打開自己的房門.最後沒有人去.榮有去查看一下.看到小姨車在那裡,他就走了.但卿打來後,雖決定不去, 但也使到我心神不寧.她沒事, 但就是很討厭她這種有點作弄人的感覺.但希望'狼來了'的故事不要成真才好!

卿聽她說她沒有趕走般工人, 就很生氣的放下電話了.因為那天她也忙.也因為她根本就不要那工人.

Wednesday, September 03, 2008

"task manager has been disabled by your administrator" ERROR soultion"

My nephew PC got this problem. I found the net and found the solution:

If you press Ctrl+Alt+Del and got this error message:task manager has been disabled by your administrator.


click "Start" and then "Run"
type in the following...
(may be you can also try to use copy(ctrl+c) and paste(ctrl+v)the following statement)

REG add HKCU\Software\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\Policies\System /v DisableTaskMgr /t REG_DWORD /d 0 /f


Then it should work.
I tried it and when i hit the ctl+ald+dlt and my task manager was enabled again.